You see, there's something about a daily writing & painting practice that keeps a gal in check. Right about now, I could stand to check myself. I live in a new city, I'm in a new relationship, I have a new dog, a new house, a new gallery, a new band, a new car. Yet the old me is still in there: that self-employed, broke-as-fuck, structureless, stressed out, disorganized artist who has trouble focusing and thrift shops therapeutically then freaks the fuck out when she gets down to her last penny every month, that YES-girl who care-takes everyone but herself and then crashes with a KABOOM, the woman who can't seem to have real self-esteem or body-confidence in spite of it all, the gal who might drink too much coffee or alcohol and then forget to eat, the lady who doesn't clean up her messes and then gets mad at the house for being a pig sty. STUPID ME! I find myself saying. Grow up and figure your shit out! Every year, about this time, I say I'm going to make some real changes. This time I'm making them, slowly but surely. And part of making those steps of self-improvement is realizing what works. What have I abandoned and why? What is important to me? Let's get real, Jess. I'm my own boss, which means only I can hold myself accountable. Year 35, here I am. I'm stepping up to the plate. And all I can say is, it's about damn time.