max the cat's blindness is getting worse. he started bumping into things today, going into the wrong corners, looking blankly into the sky. it may be the fault of his kidneys, or it may be diabetes. it may be high blood pressure. or, it just may be old man blindness. it's hard to know. with a cat of sixteen going on twenty, sometimes its just so hard to know....what to do, or when to jump...when to go to the vet, when to spend another thousand dollars we don't have, on antibiotics and tooth extractions, on x-rays and blood tests....it's hard to know when to turn the lights off, or when to do nothing and let nature take its course. as with everything in life, sometimes you have to make the hard choices, and sometimes you just sit on your hands and wait for those choices to make themselves. which is worse? i don't really know.
yes, animal ownership is a challenge. it tests my patience, my courage, and my intuition, daily. sometimes it takes everything out of me. and sometimes it fills me up. it's unpredictable, hard to know what card you're going to draw on any given day. for instance, yesterday, i drew the JOKER.
yesterday, just like every other day, i took the dogs for their evening run, this time by myself. to the wide open field at the elementary school filled with glowing dandelions wishes we walked. i let them off leash, and instantly, sunny bolted. this doesn't usually happen. usually, my dogs are good boys. feeling helpless, i run off to find him, yelling sunny, get back here. COME HERE!! I feel like an idiot. soon he comes a'runnin, looking like mischief. no sooner do i turn around to find samish chowing down on something by the tennis court. i run over to try and stop him but sunny beats me to it. they have a royal buffet until i huff and puff over there to find them feasting on a pile of smelly barf, hidden under grass. ugh. i leash them up, exasperated, and cry a little, feeling beaten at the game. i guess that's parenting for you: every mistake is a lesson learned.
tomorrow's a new day, i tell myself, try to reassure myself. and of course, it always is. because today, those pups were perfect little angels, sleeping all day in the warm sun of the backyard while i worked.